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The Best Essential Oils To Help You Meditate Better



Meditation is known to help us become more aware and connect deeper with the world around us besides numerous other health benefits such as lowering the heart rate and decreased stress levels.

However, the distractions around us can sometimes get in the way of the practice and make concentrating challenging. When this happens, essential oils can help, they play an important role in calming and improving the meditation session.

We have to add here that incorporating essential oils into meditation is not a new practice. Fragrances generally have been an important part of wellness practices in almost every culture as they are believed to improve the consciousness of the users. And in today’s fast-paced world essential oils are invaluable for a rewarding meditation session.

Below are 8 essential oils you can include in your meditation practice. Share your experience with us in the comments if you already use any on our list.

Frankincense Oil

Frankincense, though popular for its scent, it is widely used for many health benefits. The oil has been found to be useful as a stress reliever when added to the bath and works also as a natural deodorizer. The oil is useful for fighting against aging and wrinkles and serves a remedy for flu and cold. If you have difficulty sleeping, frankincense oil may help as a sleep aid while also speeding up the healing process.

The oil is safe for use and if you find it hard to concentrate during meditation as a result of the day’s stress, frankincense works as a great stress relief oil to help you concentrate and meditate better.

Sandalwood Oil

This essential oil is beneficial for healing emotional wounds. The oil is believed to open the mind and heart in order to promote trust.

Sandalwood essential oil also offers health benefits such as anti-aging, lowering bad cholesterol, aiding in weight loss, as a deodorant and a muscle strengthener.

The oil is an antiseptic, anti-inflammatory and effective for inducing relaxation when you need to relax and meditate.

Bergamot Oil

Bergamot essential oil is extracted from the fruit. The oil has been used for centuries in perfumes and colognes for its scent and high versatility. The uplifting citrus scent is both stress and pain-relieving.

It can be used to soothe muscle aches that may occur from prolonged sitting during meditation. Inhaling the scented oil has also been shown to improve relaxation, mood, and enhance confidence.

The oil contains antibacterial, antiviral, and antifungal properties making it particularly useful for preventing illness and also for purification. It is useful for relieving respiratory conditions, infection, and as a digestion aid. The mood-lifting oil is also effective for fighting against the signs of depression and as a flavor in some teas.

Although it can be used alone for meditation and other reasons, the oil blends well with many other oils. If you’re looking for a meditation essential oil to improve your mood, boost your confidence and help you relax more, this oil combined with sandalwood, frankincense, or lavender is one you should consider.

Rosemary Oil

This fragrant rosemary herb has been used since ancient times for cooking and also direct use for medicinal purposes. A close relative of mint, sage, and basil, rosemary is valued for its many health benefits.

The oil is an anti-inflammatory, analgesic and also known for other cognitive-related benefits. It is used in the relief of muscle pain, for memory improvement, immune function and also as a digestive aid. The oil is also known to relieve pain and stimulate hair growth.

The polyphenols contained in the oil have shown anti-cancer effects and may be helpful for preventing and treating cancer.

Chronic pain and inflammation can get in the way of meditation and rosemary essential may give you the much-needed relief. Besides helping you relax better, it may also be effective for treating chronic pain for from nerve damage and inflammation triggered ailments.

Sweet Marjoram

If you find it hard to sleep even after trying meditation, marjoram essential oil can help. The oil has been found to help our body increase its blood circulation. It has also been shown to help calm the nerves and improve our sleep.

To maximize its benefit as an insomnia treatment, you can combine with chamomile, lavender, and bergamot. The oil works well with the aforementioned ones.

Other health benefits offered by marjoram include:

  • Nervous system enhancement
  • Anti-bacterial and anti-viral
  • Reduced inflammation and fever
  • Cough, asthma and muscle tension relief


Lavender Oil

Used in traditional medicine since ancient times, lavender is known for its healing relaxation-inducing, sleep-aiding, and general health improving properties. The herb which is native to the Mediterranean region is closely related to the mint plant and the compounds in it are easily absorbed and take effect quickly.

The oil is also an anti-bacterial, anti-fungal, carminative, antidepressant and detoxifying. It is has been shown to be effective for lowering blood pressure, enhancing blood circulation and help in combating respiratory issues such as asthma, bronchitis, flu, congestion, and cold.

Lavender essential oil is highly relaxing and refreshing and these effects are beneficial for meditation if you’re feeling stressed, anxious and finding it hard to meditate.

The oil can be used alone or combined with other essential oils such as bergamot, sandalwood, jasmine, and rosemary to stimulate the senses or unwind for better meditation.

Peppermint Oil

The last thing you probably want during meditation is a runny nose from cold, when this happens it can be hard to concentrate. Peppermint oil to the rescue!

This essential is excellent for clearing the nose and sinuses and if you’re feeling too warm, applying a few drops of peppermint oil on your skin can provide a cool refreshing feeling. The oil can also be used to improve blood circulation throughout the body including the brain.

Diffusing a few drops before you meditate will help in no small measure to enhance your session.

Palo Santo

This essential oil from the South American tree Palo Santo means Holy Wood. It has been used for centuries for its many health benefits. These days, Palo Santo is commonly used as an incense and as an essential oil.

The oil is produced by steam-distilling the wood to create a clear pale yellow liquid. Because it is one of the oils newly introduced in aromatherapy, documentations on its uses are few.

However, its long history of use by the shamans is part of the reason it is recommended for meditation, yoga, and many other spiritual and wellness practices.

The oil known for its grounding qualities helps to calm and center you when you find it hard to meditate from stress and anxiety. Many users also burn the oil to ward off negativity and negative energies. The oil is also used for vibrational work and as an insect repellent.

Palo Santo essential oil has a woody smell with a hint of citrus and mint


Just like frankincense, myrrh is native to the Arabian Peninsula and Africa. The resin is extracted by cutting the tree and letting the sap bleed out and harden.

The oil is made by steam distilling the extracted resin. Myrrh has been used for medical and spiritual reasons for by the early Christians, Jews, Egyptians, and other cultures.

Myrrh is a known essential oil for meditation besides being a strong fragrance. The very grounding oil helps to put you in a meditative state easily. It is also great for reducing overwhelming emotions that may get in the way of mindfulness such as anger or sadness.

The earthy-woody-balsamic smell of the myrrh essential oil can be used alone but if you find it too harsh, you can mix with frankincense, jasmine or any essential oil of your choice.  They blend well and combining can aid in their effectiveness.

Myrrh can also be used for other reasons e.g. as a toothpaste, an antibacterial, and for treating dry chapped skin.


How to Use Essential Oils for Meditation

You can still use your essential oil without a special oil diffuser or heater. With just a clean spray bottle and clean water (distilled water if possible), you can fill the air in your room with your favorite fragrance.


Add 15 drops of your essential oil to 1 oz. of water then shake and spray around your meditation corner to disperse the scent.

Keep your meditation essential oil away from heat and direct sunlight to preserve its effectiveness. If you do not have access to distilled water, you can use tap water but do the following before use:

  • Fill the spray bottle with water and leave overnight without the lid.
  • Add the oils in the morning. Doing this allows the chlorine evaporate without diminishing the natural fragrance.
  • Lastly, keep all essential oils away from the reach of children and pets.



Dawn is a health and fitness enthusiast, a massage therapist and she also loves to write!

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Tips To Focus Better During Meditation




With any beginner meditation practice, it can be discouraging to be unable go a long time without losing focus. Well, here’s some news: even long-term meditators find it hard to go on a lengthy meditation session without losing focus. And many also know and accept that meditation requires a lifetime of practice.

Even then, you have to keep in mind that meditation isn’t really about achieving and maintaining an unwavering focus but mostly about knowing when you lose focus and being mindful enough to bring yourself back to the present.  And the best part is being able to do this as many times as needed until you can maintain focus for as long as it is possible for you.

In this article on focusing better during meditation, I’ll discuss some tips you can apply to improve your meditation focus and practice. Used regularly, these meditation focus tips will help you make the most of your sessions.  You can also check this article on how to meditate if you’re starting or could use a few beginner meditation tips

                     Tips For Concentrating Better During Meditation

Begin With Shorter Sessions

When starting a meditation practice, it can be easy to want to set a long time for your meditation sessions. However, it is best not to, as prolonged meditation at the beginning could be demotivating, especially when you are unable to maintain your focus for a long time. Start with five minutes. Then, work your way up as you improve at the practice. With time, it becomes easier to achieve and maintain your focus for longer.

Minimize Distractions

One of the most effective ways to maintain focus and concentrate better during meditation is through practicing it in a quiet place. Set up a calm and relaxing space devoted to the practice. Also, ensure that the area is as free as possible of distractions, strong smell, or human or pet traffic while at it.

Pick The Most Suitable Time

What time are you best able to practice meditation without distractions? Consider this when starting a meditation practice to help you make the best use of your sessions.

For some meditators, nightly meditation before sleep offers the most benefit; for others, mornings, right after they wake, is excellent. Whichever you decide on, make sure it is one that affords you ample time to refocus or calm your mind depending on your meditation goal.

Allow The Thoughts In And Out

Acknowledge that your mind will wander, and the thoughts will come and allow them. However, try as best as you can to avoid focusing on the thoughts. Do not analyze them, at least not when you should be meditating.

Also, keep in mind that these random thoughts and even images can appear in your mind for no particular reason. And even while it can be tempting to focus on them, you should not spend time on them or try to force them away. Give them the freedom to appear, and when you choose not to concentrate on them or try to push them out, they should disappear just as they came. Then, you can gradually shift your mind back to your meditation practice.

Use Your Breath To Improve Your Focus

Again, it is entirely normal for random thoughts to appear during meditation. And if they seem to appear too frequently, breathing can be one way to regain focus. When you notice your mind has wandered or the random thoughts and images appear, slowly take a deep breath and pay attention to how you feel doing it, and return to the meditation or repeat if needed.

Meditation Music

Enjoyable and relaxing, a meditation or relaxation music can help you achieve and maintain your focus during meditation. Take time to observe and hear all of the instruments and sounds blended to make the music as you try to relax and refocus.

Don’t Take It Too Seriously

While meditation is no doubt an important activity, it doesn’t have to be a serious one. When meditating, keep it simple and relaxing.

Pick a comfortable posture, a smile on your face if you want, and your muscles relaxed. You can even have a friend or two join your sessions or join a meditation class closest to you. Remember, a meditation session can be fun and therapeutic at the same time.

Remind Yourself Of All Of Meditation’s Benefits

When starting to meditate, it can be easy for any beginner to become demotivated from the lack of visible benefits or inability to focus during the sessions. Don’t let this be you. Remember why you started, and all you stand to gain if you continue practicing meditation.

Journal Your Meditation Experience

As you start and improve your practice, write down your experiences/how you feel before and after each meditation session. Don’t hold back. Include details like the thoughts you get, your feelings, and mood changes before and after each meditation session. Also include the ideas or perspectives you gained after each meditation session. Journaling your experience would help you stay motivated and disciplined enough to continue the practice.

Don’t Rush Your Meditation Sessions

This is one of the reasons a meditation space is essential. Avoid disruptions and resist the urge to rush into your sessions, and then rush out to a different activity.

Learn to finish each meditation session gently and, if possible, sit a few minutes to process the experience at the end of the session. Depending on your meditation posture, you may also want to stretch your body and then journal your experience, including the ideas or inspiration you received during the practice.

Embrace Your Experiences No Matter The Difference

Meditation sessions can yield different experiences, and all of these experiences have to be embraced. Some days, you may feel joy, warmth, sadness, calmness, or even frustration at the practice. This is normal. Accepting that these varying experiences are some of the things that makes the practice intriguing will help you keep at it.

How To Focus Better During Meditation: Conclusion

When learning how to meditate or trying to improve your meditation practice, focusing can be challenging for many people. And this can happen irrespective of the type of meditation. I discussed some of the tips you can apply to improve your meditation focus in this article. With consistency, you should see your concentration improve and your overall wellbeing better for it.

Thoughts/questions on how to focus better when you meditate? Share in the comment section below.

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Mindful Strategies For Recovering From Loss




Losses are devastating and recovery can often seem worse; we are flooded with all kinds of emotions: sadness, regrets, frustrations, disillusionment, and anger.  And even though we wish they could all go away, these emotions take their sweet time and can overwhelm even the strongest of us if we allow them. We begin to dread the coming days as nothing seems to get better.

The fact is, grief is something most of us have and will experience at some point in our lives. Whether it’s the loss of a friendship, a romantic relationship, death or even a material possession; loss is painful. So, what can you do to cope better? How do you recover from loss mindfully?

I’ll share some effective mindful strategies to help you cope with and recover from loss and grief. Before anything, you have to understand that no recovery strategy will make it all go away in one day. Healing takes time but you can rest assured that when these strategies are implemented, you will come out on the other side a stronger, better and more aware you. Give it time.

Request For And Accept All The Support You Can Get

No one has to go through grief alone. It’s not “weak” to seek and get help from people who care about you. Freely request and accept help from friends, family, support groups and spiritual leaders. There is nothing weak or shameful about requesting for the help you need to get through the trauma.

Take Mindful Walks

Walks! Good old strategy for getting out of stressful situations. Going for brief walks outdoors can help you take your mind off of things even though temporarily. You also get to leave the loneliness behind especially if the indoors have been a huge trigger.

Make the walks brief. Just a 5 or 10-minute walk will do. Begin by standing with your feet secured on the ground. Then, slowly raise your chest, pull back your shoulders to release your posture and begin the walk.

As you begin your walk, take note of your every breath you take and let out. Feel each breath as it flows through you and purifies your entire being before it is exhaled.

Practice Yoga

If you’ve been practicing yoga, then this is an opportunity to put your years of practice into use. Even if you are a yoga newbie or have never even practiced it, now is the time to take up the practice.

Yoga is effective against anxiety and is also known for its mood-boosting quality. The best part? Even the simplest parts of the routine such as focused breathing and moving during your poses and postures can do a world of good to your mental and physical health. Plus, it keeps you from dwelling excessively on the grief. If you want, you can join a yoga class or invite a friend or two to join in your practice.

Quiet Reflection

As much as you would want to keep your mind and body distracted from the trauma with as many activities as possible, you can still benefit from quiet reflections. Quiet reflection works on all kinds of traumas. And it’s simple to apply.

Sit and think about the other times in the past when you had to cope with trauma whether minor or major. Think about the strategies you applied and how you finally made it out of that experience successfully. Then, try to pull together these strategies and apply them to your current circumstance. You did it before, now you have the experience to do it better.

Allow Yourself Feel The Grief

Sometimes, the pain hits harder than before and there is no escaping it. Don’t try to. Instead, feel the emotion, its depth and let yourself slowly and mindfully breathe through each wave of grief. Not only does doing this helps you stay grounded, but it also helps to bring you back to the present.

Breathe Work

A technique derived from Tai Chi, Breathe Works, just like mindful walking, has proven to be helpful in stressful situations. Start by sitting upright in a comfortable area with your feet planted firmly on the ground. Take 3 short inhalations, and exhale one. Repeat the sequence up to five times or even more if you want.

Imagine A New Life

It’s hard to imagine what tomorrow will be like when you’re overwhelmed with grief. But you still have to try. You don’t have to see the entire picture right now. Start small; each day, try to imagine a future without the present grief.

Yes, it is raining today but you have to remember that it won’t rain forever no matter how much it rains. Start seeing the sunshine from your imagination and soon, you will start to look forward to this new life.

Counting Sensations In Three

A few times each day, devote 5 minutes of your time to this exercise. While sitting or standing, listen closely for 3 sounds, observe 3 smells, find 3 things, feel 3 textures and if possible taste 3 things within your environment. This practice brings your mind back to the present moment. As you observe, touch, taste, smell these things, thank each one them for the awareness they bring you.

Mindful Strategies For Recovering From Loss: Conclusion

It’s easy for us to admire and praise others who picked up their broken pieces and rose above their traumas. However, when we are faced with grief, navigating our way out of it can seem impossible.

But no matter how much it hurts, we have the ability to rise through it all. Seek and accept help, draw strength from within, implement helpful mindfulness practices, do anything that helps you let go of the past and transform your life for better.

Allow the past remain in the past; you don’t live there anymore. Yes, it will take time, but allow every step you take lead you forward; not drag you back to your pain.

And it’s alright if you never completely get over the loss (do we ever fully get over any significant loss?), it is part of the things that make you a living being. You have emotions, feel, express and learn from them. And in the end, if you allow it, you will be transformed into a better version of you.

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Mindful Travels: How To Meditate On Your Trip




Many believe meditation should be reserved for those periods when you’re home alone or with others but somehow manage to snatch some alone time. Wrong! Meditation can be practiced ANYWHERE even when traveling. And if you have a phobia for flying, meditation is a practice you should begin now.

In-flight hours are great opportunities to practice meditation and mindfulness. Meditation offers several benefits including helping to ease anxiety and stress. And if you fly or travel via any means frequently, it is a practice you should make a part of your travel routine.

Doing so not only helps to keep you from feeling anxious during the flight, you’ll arrive at your travel destination grounded and more balanced.

Meditating When You Eat

During trips whether local or international, you’ll likely come across new meals or variations of the meals you know. While introducing your buds to something new and tasty is always a delight, it is also an awesome opportunity to practice mindfulness.

Mindfully pay attention to the ingredients of a meal. Attempt remembering each and every single ingredient as you eat.  Slowly eat to enjoy the whole experience of nourishing yourself. This will improve your digestion. Slowly and thoroughly chew and swallow every spoonful.

When swallowing, do so mindfully to savor the taste of the food and drink

When snacking on fruits, nuts or any other healthy snack, see it as an opportunity for refreshing meditation experience. For example, you can take a single cracker or an apple slice and transform it eating it into a new meditation experience.

Try to remain completely aware of the process of chewing, every bite you take, and when it hits your taste buds before swallowing.

Meditating In a Security Line

If you’re flying, you’ll probably have to wait in long lines at security. Seize the opportunity to shut your eyes, and take out some to get your breath in tune.

Deeply inhale to allow air into your lungs and pause briefly at the top, then exhale deeply pausing again before your next breath. As you breathe, take note of the qualities of each breath; the sensation and texture as the air moves in and out of your nostrils.

Open your eyes briefly to take some steps forward when it’s your turn to move ahead in line. Continue the meditation where you stopped till you leave the security line.

Meditating At Takeoff

If takeoff makes you nervous, then you should include meditation in your takeoff routine. True, it may seem daunting to meditate during a not-so-fascinating part of your flight but it is exactly why you should do it.

However, to successfully do this, you’ll need to use a pair of earphones or earplugs.  A guided meditation on your phone or tab will also be needed. A guided meditation will help you ease into relaxation by taking the edge off if you’re often worried or fearful about takeoffs.

Meditating During the Flight

If it’s your first flight or you always feel nervous during flights, meditation can help.

Not a few people fear flying and most still find it hard to set aside their fears even when flying is known to be the least likely transportation method to be involved in a crash.

If that is you, a meditation mantra will go a long way in taking your mind into a much quieter and focused place.  The flight mantra will help bring to your mind a sense of restful awareness. Try the following lines after you’ve taken a few deep and mindful breaths for a calmer and enjoyable flight.

Inhale, and then silently say “I am safe.”

Inhale; silently say “I am joyful.”

Exhale, and then say, “I am at peace.”

Repeat the lines of mantra for 10 – 15 minutes (or more if you want). You may need to set a timer to know when exactly to stop. When it ends, spend a few more minutes focusing on your breath, letting your eyes stay shut and breathing in and out through your nose before opening your eyes. You should feel more peaceful after.

Meditating At Landing

Just like during takeoff, many have fears of landing. One way to direct your attention from the entire experience of landing is by directing your attention away from the experience and visualizing the activity after landing.

You can try:

Imagining the arrival, the people you’ll meet, the culture, food; just any exciting detail about the vacation without the landing itself in focus.

On a business trip, visualize the reason you’re traveling, the training or meeting. Imagine every single activity going just as planned.

Relieve all of these memories in detail no matter the purpose of your trip and doing so will help calm you as the plane lands.

Meditating In Your Accommodation

Finally, you’re at your destination. While accommodation will differ from place to place and some facilities without a meditating or quiet area, it is still not a good reason to skip meditation.

Shut off all distractions like your smartphone, the TV, and the tabs then find a comfortable area of your room to meditate. You can devote 15 minutes or more each day to meditating and it shouldn’t matter if you’re sharing the room with others or staying alone.

If you have to stay in a dormitory and find it too rowdy for proper meditation, find a time in the day when it’s quiet to meditate. Or ask the staff if there’s a quiet place you can go to meditate for some time. If they have a place, make use of it daily and if they don’t, try meditating in the dorm till you leave.

Tips For Meditating Better When You Travel

There are several things you can do to improve your meditation and mindfulness when you travel, we outlined some of them below.

Listen to music

Listening to calming music is one way you can improve your meditation when traveling. It can be done on any part of your journey; at takeoff, mid-flight, landing, etc.

The best part? You only need your portable gadget e.g. a smartphone, an iPad or a tab. Listen mindfully to each note, instrument, and the words within the music as you meditate.

Dwell in the present

Meditation should help you be more in tune with your environment. During your trip, you’re naturally more aware of the new environment. However, taking everything in can be daunting and even impossible and that itself can cause some distress until you grow comfortable with it.

Thankfully, meditation can help to ease and bridge the shock of the new with the comfort that can only be derived from discovering new things and meeting new people. When you meditate, you’ll also be able to remain mindful of things deserving of more attention during your trip.

Breathe right

Breathing properly is essential for effective mediation. A good breathing technique would be effective at calming your body’s natural response to stress and tune out negative thoughts.

When meditating on transit and at any point, inhale for four counts allowing your stomach to expand while you do it and then exhale for eight counts. Do this for five minutes or more. You can either allow it to steer you into deeper meditation or repeat whenever you feel anxiety or fear creeping in.

Use a meditation app

If you’re just starting out at meditation, meditation apps are great options to consider when traveling. These apps help you stay focused by allowing you shift some amount of responsibility into a more effective guide.

Simply have them installed on your phone, plug in your earphones, close your eyes and visualize yourself relaxing peacefully.

To encourage meditation, some airlines even provide in-flight entertainment in the form of mindfulness films. Headspace is a popular one. This app helps flyers switch off from the stress and work mode, into sleep or focus.

Besides those, there are other great meditation apps you can download and they include the Headspace app, Calm, Simply Being, Inside Timer, and Aura among so many others. Simply pick any you prefer. You can check out our review of the top 7 meditation apps to help you choose.

Items You’ll Need For An Effective Plane Or Travel Meditation

  • Earplugs or earphones without music to shut out the sounds
  • A blanket for warmth
  • Your preferred positive affirmation mantra
  • A smartphone with guided meditation
  • A hat or cap to keep your ears and head warm
  • A pillow for comfort


Do you meditate when you travel? Share some of your best meditation practices in the comment section below.

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